CANCER -The Crab
Those born between
June 21 to July 22
Keyword: I feel.
GENERAL FEATURES
Water sign ruled by the Moon. It is the Moon which determines Cancerian's
"lunatic" behavior: a continuous alternation of melancholy and joy. Cancerians
are sweet, conservative, capricious, enigmatic and fanciful. They love living in
luxury, traveling, and taking care of their house (decorating it with old and
curious objects) they love past and tradition. They fear the uncertainty of
what's new and of future things, and hate violence in all its forms. They are
extremely shy, possessive and romantic, and tend to bind themselves to the
persons they love. Cancerians' most suited jobs are: interior designer,
antiquary, lawyer, cook and butler .
Cancer Traits |
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On the bright side.... |
On the dark side.... |
Nurturing |
Stubborn Ferocious temper Lazy Possessive Moody Habitual Has to be Center of Attention Self Centered Emotional Unforgiving Self Pitying Insecure like Mr. Rogers says, “Can you say the word, ‘passive aggressive paybacks?’ I thought you could.” |
Likes |
Dislikes |
A comfortable life
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Change Manipulative people Ugliness Betrayal Vulgarity Sex fiends Being controlled Nature |
The emblem for Cancer is the Crab, a
creature with a very hard shell which protects a soft interior. The crab
walks sideways, which is how the Cancerian skirts around a problem until
forced to take it on with gritty determination and a creative flair. The
crab's large claws hang on to its possessions for dear life, just as the
Cancerian collects things to beautify the environment and bravely defends
the home turf.
Paradoxically combining a love of travel with a deep need for security, they
surround themselves with sentimental objects from the past, including
souvenirs, hand-me-downs and keepsakes. Cancerians are remarkably good at
accumulating things; indeed, you can be unwilling to throw anything out,
even relationships that have passed their use-by date.
Cancer people are also good with money and generally takes a long-term view.
The main thing Cancers need to remember is not to let the powerful,
turbulent emotions of the moment crowd out their normally rational judgment.
Their intuitions are reliable and should be trusted; they may even have
natural psychic powers, which may be developed, given the right
circumstances.
Cancerians make good business people, combining artistry, originality and
drive with an understanding of financial matters, marketing and the needs of
the public. Cancer people hold on to money as tenaciously as they do to
everything else that belongs to them. To Cancers money spells security, yet
no matter how much wealth you accumulate they never feel really secure. That
is true of their emotional security also.
Cancer people are intuitive, but they need to generate a faith in themselves
that will not be dampened by gloom or depression over what, in retrospect,
may appear to be relatively insignificant problems. They have the natural
ability to be diplomatic and to speak out when necessary or keep their mouth
shut. Home and family ties will be significant in their lives and developing
a secure, comfortable home environment will be a boon to their state of
mind, irrespective of their marital state.
Physical fitness or sports activities can become important ways for
Cancerians to work out emotional stress. Team sports are fun, they tend to
adopt team members as part of an extended family. Swimming, fishing, sailing
and other water activities attract you, along with skiing, ice skating, and
mountain climbing. Cancerians are creative. Even those Cancerians who may
not have any particular talent can use some involvement with art, music, or
writing as another method of emotional release, rather than indulging in
eating binges or other destructive habits. Living or spending time near the
water is a relaxing, as well as creatively stimulating environment for
Cancerians.
Cancer rules the stomach, diaphragm, upper liver and breasts. People with
Cancer active in their charts are subject to coughs, indigestion, gas,
gallstones, general problems with stomach, liver and intestines, plus
emotional disorders such as depression, hypochondria and hysteria.
Ideal colors for the Crab are white, silver, and pale yellow. Cancer rules
metallic silver, while both the ruby and the pearl are the traditional
Cancerian birthstones. Silver reflects its environment in its shiny polished
surface, yet it can tarnish and become dull unless properly cared for. In
the same way, your sensitive nature reflects the people and circumstances
surrounding you. The precious ruby, a variety of corundum, is one of the
hardest minerals known, while the pearl is soft and easily scratched. Here
we have the two contrasting sides of the Cancerian personality: hard and
determined, yet simultaneously soft and vulnerable. Cancerian flowers are
the water lily (lotus), iris, white poppy, white carnation and southern
magnolia.
Emotions run high in the Cancerian soul. Things can get pretty steamy in
there, for there is a conflict between their desire for emotional security
and a need for creative expression, either or both of which may be
stimulated by the right partner (or partners).
Althoough Cancers may attempt to hide it from others, but Cancer is the
number 1 most sensitive and feeling member of the Zodiacal family. That's
the reason for the notorious Crab shell. Cancer's hard, but very thin, shell
is simply there for protection. Because of Cancer's extreme sensitivity,
they tend to go at things in a sideways, indirect manner. After all,
directly going for what one wants, leaves one open to the risk of rejection.
(Cancer's biggest emotional fear).
Sometimes the Cancerian shell is so thick, that they simply use others for
their own satisfaction, unless they can figure out a way to break through
their amour. In so doing, they may be overwhelmed by the sheer emotional
torrent that is released.
Cancers are moody. Admirers may find it hard to deal with their inexplicable
changes, so the best thing for those born under the sign of Cancer is to
make a conscious effort to work on the positive side of any upsetting
situation. Admirers should also know that making your Cancer love interest
the centre of their attention and dealing with their mother fixation by
complimenting and spoiling you rotten is the best way to achieve their
desires.
A trait which others might find annoying about Cancers is that they are most
likely passive-aggressive. This can lead to a lot of stubbornness on their
part. They do, however, pay attention to details and are usually punctual,
exact, and efficient. But let others beware: and no-one can make a cancer do
anything that they don't want to do.
Cancer people are great listeners and are emotionally sensitive. If they
have a problem, such as worries about their family or money, they are more
likely to brood over it than to seek solace or solutions. Deep down, all
they want is to feel safe, secure, and loved. This aspect of their
personality goes hand-in-hand with their strong domestic urge. There is
little more that they would like than to settle down and create a home.
Cancer people do well in relationships because they are a good diplomats
whenever problems arise, and they never forget a single moment of anything
that ever happens. Partnerships are preferable to Cancerian, as the thought
of loneliness is frightening. If they can control the mood swings and
tendency to retreat into their shell at the merest hint of trouble, they can
do very well.
Affirmations for Cancers
"I know that my feelings are an
expression of the Divine within me. I celebrate and share them with others."
"Within me is a great and special light. I honor the wisdom it contains and
am faithful to it."
"I accept the cycles of my feelings and life, knowing that this is right and
natural for me."
PROBLEMS THAT MAY ARISE FOR CANCERS AND THEIR SOLUTIONS
As with all sun signs, we all have unique traits to our personalities. When
these traits are suppressed, or unrealized, problems will arise. However,
with astrology we can examine the problem and assess the proper solution
based on the sun sign characteristics. As a Cancerian you may see things
below that really strike home. Try the solution, you most likely will be
amazed at the results. If you find yourself on the receiving end of the
negatives below, it is because you are failing to express the positive.
PROBLEM: You can be oversensitive and something of a clinging vine
which may cause you to harbor imaginary hurts and slights, this can make for
highly unsettling conditions with your spouse.
SOLUTION: Be sure that the love you are expressing is not simply your
need to hang own to someone for moral support, and if necessary, you should
seek professional help in order to overcome this negative, clinging aspect
of your personality.
PROBLEM: One of your biggest personality flaws, next to neediness, is
the habit of being so self absorbed that you sometimes fail to notice what
others are doing and accomplishing in their lives, you feel shut out and
jealous if a family member has more success than you do.
SOLUTION: You should make a special effort to change this in yourself
by forcing yourself to rejoice over their good fortune and when you do this
you find that it will eventually become a habit and you as well as they will
be happier for the change.
PROBLEM: Your inability to take orders without getting angry or upset
may be another one of your problems and this one could be very serious as it
affects your chances of earning a good living for yourself and/or your
family, since you are quite apt to walk away from any job where you feel
'picked on'.
SOLUTION: Try keeping an ear out and find out how the ones who have
been on the job for any length of time gets along with the boss and
coworkers. If you follow his lead or simply decide that you will simply keep
quiet and follow orders you will soon see how well you can be really liked
by all concerned.
PROBLEM: You also have a problem with putting things off until the
last minute which upsets your family and friends. This also has a tendency
to make an unpleasant matter even more unpleasant when you procrastinate.
SOLUTION: Make taking care of the business at hand your prime
objective from now on for, when you do not have all those worries in the
back of your mind you will find it more pleasant to be around people, and
you will also find that life goes smoothly for you from then on.
Paul Wade, Mirthe Valentijn © 1996-2006